If you’re feeling like a loser, confused, lost, insecure, lonely, hopeless, unlucky, a bum then know that you’re on the right track. Because before you can self-actualize, you’ll have to have your ego cracked open and all your self-imposed blocks removed because you were created and born whole. The moment we hit the ground we’re gradually stripped of our unique essence and holistic goodness.Any attempts at finding completion outside yourself means your authenticity is your blindspot.
Anything one-sided is hiding its opposite inside it. That’s duality, the name of the game in this dunya. Only Allaah can safeguard you from the imbalance and ensure you balance through transcendence. Jannah is the ultimate transcendence which is why the path there is complex and long.
As long as you’re enduring what you don’t like, know that it’s because Allaah is giving you a golden opportunity to develop through the tension of the polarities.
فَمَن زُحْزِحَ عَنِ النَّارِ وَأُدْخِلَ الْجَنَّةَ فَقَدْ فَازَ وَمَا الْحَيَاةُ الدُّنْيَا إِلَّا مَتَاعُ الْغُرُورِ
And whoever is removed away from the Fire and admitted to Paradise, he indeed is successful. The life of this world is only the enjoyment of deception (a deceiving thing).