Telling people to love themselves, to find love within, is such an asinine and cruel suggestion from people who clearly haven’t actually discovered love laying around in their inner crevices.
You receive it, from your creator. God, Allaah, the Universe, whatever you wanna call it. Pushing people into materialism as if it can solve everything and contains everything has also shamed people for their needs that they can’t meet. They’ve had to rely on sketchy sources and codependent relationships to get a whiff of the real thing.
The biggest scam is unhinging people from their divine portals, deserting them and then gaslighting them into thinking their failure is due to what they’re innately lacking and that others innately possess!