When you look at yourself and your life and you feel disappointed or discontented, don’t change what you see, change how you see. You may think it’s justified or even necessary to change what you don’t like, but keep in mind that your actions are secondary to, and an offshoot of your perception ; i. e. what fuels your focus. If your actions are borne out of a negative feeling, that means your perception either lacks truth or love. When you come from a place of unconditionality, i.e. abundance, then you won’t have to wait until the external changes for you to feel good and complete.