Figure out your guiding principles, which basically are the whys behind what you do or choose. If your guiding principles are extrinsically motivated ( because of others, future gains, keeping peace, etc) you’re in deep shit. The system has enslaved people like you and you don’t even know it. You think you’re choosing but it’s a multiple choice test and you’re picking from the limited range you’ve been offered. Beggars are not choosers.
If you put up any resistance they only have to remind you that they can pull the plug on “your” guiding principles (really theirs) and that’ll have you back in line in no time, because where will you go if they pull the rug from underneath you?The only thing worse than mental slavery is an existential crisis with no quick way out.