brain farts & hiccups
Why is self-love condemned in this world, while codependent love is glorified? There’s barely a love song that doesn’t contain worrying lyrics that makes it normal to depend on another human to fill an inner void, while self-neglect is expected.; ~ I can’t live without you~ You make it worthwhile living~ You complete me~I would die for you.
But then again, lyrics that promote healthy relationships and independence, such as these wouldn’t sell much, I suspect ~ I love you, but I love me more~ This relationship is toxic and I have to take care of myself~ I want a man who has his own life and with whom I can be interdependent~You gotto learn how to love yourself before you can love another~ I am worthy because I exist~